Find Me Alastar

Midlife crisis? Is there really such a thing?

I always imagined it happening around the age of fifty and it entailing a sports car, Botox, and

perhaps a mild fetish for gay porn. Never in my wildest dreams did I think it would go down like this at

the tender age of twenty-five.

I had it all. Life as I knew it was perfect. I had my high school sweetheart Liam, a dream job at the

auctioneers, and a deposit saved for our very first home together.

It’s funny, you know. They always say that you don’t know what you have got until its gone. With me it

was the exact opposite. I knew what I was missing. I knew my heart yearned for a man that I had never

met.

I wanted him.

To melt when he looked at me.

To catch on fire when he touched me.

I could see it so clearly in my mind and I could feel the heat when I was alone in my bed.

I wanted the fairy tale.

How can you want someone so desperately, when according to everyone else you are already living

the dream?

I had a perfect man-a perfect, reliable man-but my life was empty.

My soul was dying day by day.

Like a lost sheep, I would cry myself to sleep at night, knowing what I was missing-knowing that he

was waiting for me-yet hating myself for feeling this way.

I didn’t know who I was searching for, I only knew he was in London. He had to be in London

because he wasn’t anywhere I had been before and London had been at the forefront of my mind for the

longest time.

Then, on one fateful day, it began… and my life changed.

The day when I met him.

I didn’t exactly meet him, but I talked to him. I wrote to him, to be exact. When working at the

auctioneers, my company had acquired art. We sent it over to London to be auctioned off, knowing that

there were collectors over there that were interested in this particular artist. We would fetch a much

higher price than here in Australia. My job description was to liaise with the art department from the

auction house to ensure that the transfer ran smoothly.

He-also known as Mark White-was head of marketing for Chesters in London. We spoke by email

every day for three weeks. At first our conversation was work related, slowly moving onto the weather

and polite chitchat. But then one Monday, a day that I will never forget because it is burned into my damnNôvelDrama.Org content.

brain, everything changed.

I had returned back to work after a particularly boring weekend with Liam; one where we didn’t go

out because we were saving. Liam didn’t like to waste money so we never did much. We had fallen into

routine, and whether it was laziness, complacency, or just damn stupidity on both of our parts, the cracks

in our relationship had begun to show without us realizing it.

We were both responsible for the other’s boredom but we didn’t know how to pull each other out of

the funk.

That was our life.

That was what we did-our routine.

How do you change something when it’s the only thing you know?

And, fuck, if I couldn’t make it work with Liam who I knew was a good man, what chance did I have

with a complete stranger?

Anyway… back to the story.

That morning my email pinged and it was Mark, I smile as I remember it like yesterday.

Good Morning, Emerson.

My eyes darted guiltily around the office to see if anyone knew what I was doing, and I smiled

mischievously while I typed back.

Good Morning, Mark.

An email immediately bounced back.

How was your weekend?

I replied.

Extremely dull. How was yours?

He typed back.

I nearly emailed you on the weekend to say hi.

I wish.

You should have. It would have brightened my day.

And he replied.

What are you wearing?

Four words, four stupid words, and my whole life changed. What are you wearing? I instantly

became uncomfortable and nervously found a way to get offline. I knew it was wrong. I had a perfect

boyfriend for Christ’s sake, even if I did find myself constantly thinking about Mark. His life was fun,

vibrant, unpredictable, and here I was living the life of a sixty-year-old. A deep, sinister sadness fell over

me and I realized I missed hearing about his life, his dates, and the fun he was having when I wasn’t

speaking to him. Then, after two days of radio silence, I did the unthinkable. I messaged him back and told

him exactly what I was wearing. The lines quickly became blurred. We started messaging each other at all

hours of the day, talking about everything but art related topics. I would even hide in the bathroom at work

to converse with him.